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Carrie Barnhart, LSW

Thearpist

Hello, parents 

Hi, mama, papa, and all the parents doing their best to hold it all together. ❤️ If you’ve ever loved your child fiercely while feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or wondering if you’re doing enough, you’re not alone. Parenting a neurodivergent child can be a beautiful journey, but it can also bring challenges that are hard to explain to others.Maybe you’re tired of being the strong one, or you simply wish someone understood what life feels like behind the scenes. I want you to know that you deserve that understanding, too. You don’t have to be a perfect parent, have all the answers, or figure everything out on your own. This is a space where you can take a breath, feel heard without judgment, and learn to offer yourself the same compassion you give your child. You’re doing something that matters, and you deserve support along the way. I’m so glad you’re here, and I’d be honored to walk alongside you.

To the Parents Who Are Holding It All Together

For the parents behind parenting​

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Hi, parents! ❤️ Have you ever spent the entire day taking care of everyone else, only to realize you have nothing left for yourself? Maybe you're navigating the unique challenges of raising a neurodivergent child, trying to understand big emotions and challenging behaviors, or feeling caught between being the parent you want to be and the parent you become when you're exhausted. Maybe family dynamics feel complicated, you and your partner struggle to agree on parenting approaches, or you find yourself carrying guilt long after a difficult day. If any of this sounds familiar, I want you to know that you're not alone, and you don't have to figure it all out by yourself.

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As both a mom and a therapist, I recognize that parenting is about so much more than knowing what to do. It's about navigating the emotions, relationships, unexpected challenges, and personal sacrifices that come with caring for a family. When you're raising a neurodivergent child, the demands can feel especially intense. You may spend countless hours advocating for your child's needs, learning new strategies, navigating school or community systems, and trying to understand behaviors that others may not understand. Through it all, your own needs and emotions deserve attention, too.

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My passion is helping parents survive the hard days of parenting while building a more compassionate, connected family life. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, struggling with parenting challenges, experiencing tension in your family, or simply trying to find your footing, therapy can offer a space to slow down, understand what's happening beneath the surface, and discover new ways forward.

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Understanding Yourself Through IFS

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I incorporate Internal Family Systems (IFS) into my therapeutic approach. IFS recognizes that we all have different parts within us, each with its own feelings, concerns, and ways of trying to protect us. As a parent, one part of you might want to stay calm and patient, another might feel frustrated and overwhelmed, and yet another might criticize you for not doing enough. You might love your child deeply while sometimes wishing you could step away and catch your breath.

These feelings don't make you a bad parent. They make you human.

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Rather than judging these parts or trying to push difficult feelings away, we can explore what they are trying to communicate and what they need. Through this process, you can develop greater self-understanding, respond to your emotions with more compassion, and create more intentional ways of responding to your child and family. The goal isn't to become a perfectly calm parent. It's to build a more supportive relationship with yourself, even on the days when parenting feels like too much.

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Parenting Neurodivergent Children: You Deserve Support, Too

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I have a special interest in supporting parents raising neurodivergent children, including families navigating ADHD, autism, sensory differences, emotional regulation challenges, and other unique developmental needs. Parenting a neurodivergent child may require you to rethink familiar parenting strategies, advocate for accommodations, manage unpredictable routines, and learn to understand your child's world from a different perspective.

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You may sometimes wonder whether you're doing enough, whether you're being too strict or too lenient, or how to balance your child's needs with the needs of the rest of your family. You may feel misunderstood by people who don't see what happens behind closed doors.

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Together, we can explore practical parenting strategies, better understand your child's needs, and identify approaches that fit your family's circumstances. We'll make room for both your child's individuality and your well-being, because supporting your child shouldn't mean losing yourself in the process.

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Family Dynamics, Relationships, and Parenting Skills

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Parenting doesn't happen in isolation. Our own childhood experiences, family expectations, relationship patterns, and communication styles can influence how we respond to our children and each other. When stress builds, even small disagreements can become bigger conflicts, and family members can find themselves caught in patterns they don't know how to change.

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In our work together, we can explore family dynamics, strengthen communication, navigate parenting disagreements, establish healthier boundaries, and work toward more connected relationships. I also value practical parenting education and parenting classes as opportunities to build skills, gain insight, and connect with others navigating similar challenges. Depending on your needs and the services available, we can explore parenting strategies, emotional regulation, understanding behavior, positive discipline, and ways to support your child's development while caring for yourself.

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You don't have to choose between understanding your emotions and learning practical tools. We can make space for both.

 

You Don't Have to Have It All Figured Out

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Maybe you're looking for ways to manage the daily stress of parenting. Maybe you're struggling with family conflict or feeling disconnected from yourself. Maybe you're raising a neurodivergent child and wishing someone could help you make sense of it all without judgment. Wherever you are in your parenting journey, you are welcome here.

You don't have to wait until you're completely burned out to seek support. You don't have to be perfectly prepared for therapy, either. We can start with what feels hardest right now and work together toward a way of parenting and living that feels more sustainable for you and your family.

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Ready to make space for yourself and find support for your family?

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I'd love to connect with you. Book your first session today, and let's begin building a path toward greater understanding, more effective parenting strategies, healthier family dynamics, and more compassion for yourself along the way. You spend so much time showing up for your family. You deserve a place where someone shows up for you, too.

Contact

I'm always looking for new and exciting opportunities. Let's connect.

216-534-6144

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